Archive for September, 2010

The loss of cycling giant, Jure Robic

Thursday, September 30th, 2010

Jure Robic died on September 24th at aged 45 when he collided with a truck while training.  I first heard of Jure in a podcast on Radiolab called limits.  This is where I came in contact with RAAM, the Race Across AMerica. Jure has won the race from San Diego to Atlantic City an unprecedented 5 times.  This is easily akin to Lance Armstrong’s 7 wins of the Tour de France. Without big name sponsorship and a six figure salary.

Consider if you will RAAM is not a stage race, there are no rests.  Jure once rode 518.7 miles (834.8 km) in 24 hours, a world record, and an average speed of 34.7 km/hour.

“In race, everything inside me comes out,” he said. “Good, bad, everything. My mind, it begins to do things on its own. I do not like it, but this is the way I must go to win the race.”

From RAAM

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The Death of Tyler Clementi

Thursday, September 30th, 2010

Dharun ravi's posts exposed his roommates sexual encounters

Dharun Ravi and Molly Wei are not the only people responsible for the death of Tyler Clementi.  There is of course Tyler himself, but also society at large.  What kind of society do we live in where the shame of being “outed” is so traumatic that it would drive someone to kill themselves?

Dharun’s filming and posting of his roommates sexual encounter was juvenile, invasive and to say the least, cruel.  But it would hardly be the first time roommates did awful things like this to each other, and most people survive bullies.  What made this event so awful is that at a time when Tyler Clementi should have free to discover who he is, gay or not, that opportunity was stolen from him because he was vulnerable.

Now Dharun and Molly will have to live the rest of their lives knowing their cruelty contributed to driving a person to kill themselves; and for what? Because he was “making out with a dude”?  I find it shocking that at a university, which should a place of progression and learning, anyone could be so narrow minded that seeing two guys kiss would cause so much interest.

When will a gay kiss become “just a kiss”, or gay sex become “just sex”?

On the day that happens then there won’t be any more Tyler Clementi’s.  No more gay kids will be hurt by outings, or by coming out of their own accord. No one will be able to leverage sexual orientation for bullying or segregation. No one will need to spend their lives in the closet fearing what others will think.

I am sorry you couldn’t wait for that day Tyler, I really am.  Those who love you will love you anyway and those who don’t, didn’t really love you in the first place.


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Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

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Toronto’s stupid lousy election

Thursday, September 16th, 2010

I’m having a tough time this year picking who I will vote for in the next election. All of the candidates suck. I mean really suck. Toronto’s biggest issue isn’t being elitists, or being hated by the rest of the country, it’s biggest issue is a lack of vision from our supposed leaders

Rocco Rossi is out, I simply cannot vote for someone named “Rocco”. It’s not an anti-Italian thing, I like Italians, I just don’t like the name “Rocco”. That and his big idea for the city is to have a suggestion box…no I’m not kidding, stop laughing. Oh, that and an eight kilometre expressway under the city. Ya, that’ll be cheap.

Sarah Thomson (who?) recipient of a glowing recommendation by none other than former inmate Conrad Black is running. But she’s not important enough, loud enough, or smart enough to get my attention. Perhaps I couldn’t hear her over “Rocco’s” stunning ideas.  I have no idea what her platform is, where she stands and I work for a freakin’ news agency.  Seriously if she does as poor of a job as mayor as she has getting her message out we’re all screwed.

Joe Pantalone is basically a shorter version of David Miller who’s he’s never met a special interest group he didn’t like.  Especially special interests like unions. If elected I predict he will drag this city into a socialist Hell that will make Prypiat look good in comparison. I’ll start looking for property outside Toronto if that happens.

George Smitherman is running and as a fellow friend of Dorothy’s would be the most likely candidate except for that damn e-health scandal.  I mean seriously how hard can it possibly be to put out a couple of RFP’s? That sort of lack of judgement is hard for me to forgive.  He’s figured out the “waste bad, transit good” mantra but I fear it will be too late.

And last but not least is Rob Ford. Ford is loud, brash, obese and just a little racist.  In fact he reminds me of Archie Bunker mixed with Rush Limbaugh. He hates gay and cyclists (ahem, not good for yours truly)

During a council debate on public-health grants for community-based AIDS-prevention programs, Mr. Ford says: “If you’re not doing needles and you’re not gay, you won’t get AIDS, probably.

“What I compare bike lanes to is swimming with the sharks. Sooner or later, you’re going to get bitten. And every year we have dozens of people that get hit by cars or trucks. Well, no wonder. Roads are built for buses, cars and trucks. Not for people on bikes. And my heart bleeds for them when I hear someone gets killed, but it’s their own fault at the end of the day.”

The quotes go on and on….

but he’s good with his constituent’s money, willing to trim the waste from city hall and ready to take on the unions.  He might be a bit of buffoon and the Sarah Palin of this election but by God I think he might win it.

So all in all it  is a matter of choosing not who will do the most good, but who do I think will do the least harm, to both myself and the city.   Where’s our Hazel McCallion, Toronto?

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Well Done Tiger

Friday, September 10th, 2010

I have written a few times about email marketing.

THE NEWEST IN EMAIL FAIL…AIR CANADA!

THOUGHTS ON EMAIL MARKETING

MORE THINKING OF EMAIL

I am by no means an expert, but I know what I hate and I don’t hate this.  Tiger direct sends me mail everyday which I don’t mind it because with a glance I can see whether or not it is to my taste.  They advertise computer and computer components which are relevant to my interests.  But check this out:

They know I left my cart and are reminding me about it. They provide a time limit to give a sense of urgency. They give me a direct link to see my cart and a code with which to provide an agent should I wish to perform this purchase on the phone.  Brilliant.  Just brilliant.

I would love to see what the conversion rate is on this;  I bet they make a mint off of it.  This is the sort of sensible, well thought out marketing emails that I want to receive.  Well done Tiger Direct!

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Two wrongs don’t make a right

Thursday, September 9th, 2010

Blood donation is a topic I have written about numerous times:

Nice Site, Hope he’s not gay

Excuse me while I climb up on my soapbox

Why Canada needs more common sense

I’m writing about it again for two reasons. First is for one of my co-workers who had leukemia was asking for people to donate and the other is for Kyle  Freeman.

The Canadian Blood Services is having a blood drive here at the CBC and this co-worker encouraged people to donate. When I explained that I couldn’t because I was gay and the CBS discriminates against us, he was shocked.  As a recipient of blood I guess he was dismayed that anyone would be turned away. He mistook my dismissal of CBS as me having an issue with blood donation.  I explained that I fully supported blood donation, but that the CBS needed to rethink their criteria.

Kyle Freemen is a different case. Mr. Freemen donated 18 times and lied on his donor questionnaire.  Now the CBS has successfully sued Mr. Freeman.  When asked why he was doing it he replied,

“It’s about believing in what’s right. Lawyers can argue the hell out of it. At the end of the day, there are people who need blood and there are healthy donors. There’s no rational basis, medical or scientific, to exclude gay men from giving blood,” says Kyle.

Unfortunately Mr. Freeman is sort of incorrect.  There is a very rational reason to exclude gay men and the statistics are shocking.  Somewhere between 41% – 62% of all new cases of HIV are gay men.  They are the largest single group. According to ACT “Gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (MSM) continued to comprise the greatest proportion (44%) of new HIV infections in 2008.”  This is shocking given that only 1% of the population is gay according to a survey in 2003 of 135,000 Canadians.

However, I am not convinced that the reason HIV is prevalent in gay men is sexual orientation.   There are lots of people who engage in safe intercourse everyday. I believe the reason the statistics are this way is because of the lifestyle of many gay men.   All one has to do is pick up a Fab or Xtra to see the listings for sexual activities.  These are frequently accompanied by drug use (read: crystal meth) With a more open attitude to sex, many gay men put themselves at risk.

There is also a connection between income and HIV status.  Poor people are more likely to be infected and as a marginalized group many gays find themselves without means.  So should we exclude the poor from donating? Perhaps, I would need to see what the statistics bear out first.

What about sluts?  Houston, a porn actress is known for her work in Metro’s “The World’s Biggest Gangbang 3: The Houston 500” (1999),and reportedly had sex with over 620 men without interruption. She can donate blood, and I cannot because I’m a man. We have both had sex with men, (and I with vastly fewer than she) but I am excluded because I happen to also be a man.

The Canadian Blood Services has stated, they while they do test all units of blood, and our tests are state-of-the-art, there still exists a brief period after the onset of a viral infection during which early signs of a virus cannot be detected. What this means is that should an individual who has recently acquired the AIDS virus donate blood, that unit would be infectious to the patient receiving it.

That period is only about 2 weeks.  That being said, the CBS should change their questionnaire to ask “how many partners one has had” or “whether or not one engaged in unprotected sex in the last year”.  That way those of us who feel strongly, like Mr. freeman, can donate.

On an interesting side, note it seems that while the CBS receives governmental  funding from both provincial and federal governments, and are overseen by Health Canada they are not a government agency.  As a result the Canadian Charter of Rights does not apply to them the same way it would to an organization like say…the CBC. This is probably a response to the Krever inquiry and a way to keep the government safe from another billion dollar scandal.

The Canadian Red Cross was removed from being responsible for handling the Canadian blood supply and replaced by the Canadian Blood Services because of the nation-wide controversy when it was revealed that between 1986 and 1990 it had supplied tainted blood to patients despite knowing of a test that might have detected the infection in some cases.

The Canadian Red Cross was fined only $5,000 for its role in the tainted blood scandal and agreed to plead guilty to distributing a contaminated drug (should have been murder or at least negligent homicide). It agreed to give 1.5 million dollars to the University of Ottawa for a research endowment fund as well as a scholarship for family members of those affected. In exchange, six criminal charges against the Red Cross were dropped.

It was assumed that the tainted blood came from gays, however there is an intriguing connection between the Canadian Red Cross and the Arkansas prison system.  I would be interested to see if there is a correlation between infected blood donation and sexual orientation. I suspect there isn’t; since gay men can freely get tested at no-hassle clinics (so there is no need to use the CBS as a testing facility) and the sort of people who go to sex parties and smoke crystal meth are probably not the same sort of people who donate blood.

All that being said, Kyle Freeman was wrong to lie on the survey just as the CBS is wrong to discriminate against gays, and wrong to believe it isn’t discrimination.

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Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Love doesn't find you on it's own skeleton drain Anthony Dimitre icons Ferris Bueller Art Gallery Josh Greet remembering old friends The truth hardest goodbye

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